I got this book through the Goodreads First Reads program. I didn't like this book at all. It was filled with antiquated ideas of the woman's place in a man's world. I really didn't see anything other than what could be seen as common sense that was valuable. Everything else just made me feel like it was nothing but a show. If you get a relationship based on a false front, then what type of relationship are you looking for? Sorry, I would not suggest this book to anyone.